So today, I played in a four man scramble golf tournament. Now, I played golf back in college, but up until about two weeks ago it had been several years since I picked up a club. Don’t get me wrong, even in college I was playing the “only broke 100 once in my life” kind of golf. For those of you who are unfamiliar with golf, suffice it to say that three digit scores are far from great when low score counts and the course is rated at 72.
I played with a few colleagues and we crushed a rival team. Those poor guys didn’t even see it coming. We wound up with a final score of 80, and our rivals came in at 82.
I know what you are thinking… Two strokes doesn’t exactly sound like “crushing” the competition. And you’re right. But when you are playing over twenty teams and you end up 2 strokes away from dead last, that’s something to celebrate. Everyone had a great time, and the weather was fantastic.
What More Could You Ask For?
During the week, I had sent my teammates a motivational email to prepare them for the big day. Here is the body of the email:
“When we are on the course this Saturday, proving our dominance and mastery of the game, we must have ultimate control of our minds. No matter what happened on your previous shot… A flub, mis-hit, topper, hook, slice, out of bounds or in the pond…. When you approach the current shot, erase the past. In this moment there is nothing on the planet except for you, the ball, and victory! You have this glorious moment that is fresh and new…. Seize it – This could very well be the greatest golf shot you have ever made!!“
If you are a serious golfer, please excuse the “dominance and mastery of the game” part above. That was the motivational and humorous part of the email. While playing in the tournament, much of the remaining philosophy from my email played out. I wound up with a great day and some life lessons to share with you.
How To Live Your Life (The Lessons)
As you go through life, careers, relationships, challenges and triumphs… don’t let the past stop you from achieving your desires. Your past does not dictate who you are in this moment and who you will be in the next. You must be willing to erase those parts of your past that prevent you from living your life today… in this moment.
If you can approach each moment and each new day with an open mind, you can make your dreams into reality. That takes intense focus and the ability to block all other distractions from your mind. Can you do that? Just remember that focus and persistence are the primary elements of success in any endeavor.
Every day you have these “fresh and new” opportunities that surround you. Take hold of your life, aim in the direction you decide and never lose sight of your goal. The next step you take could very well be the first step towards living the life of your dreams!
Leave a comment with your thoughts or other interesting revelations.
Or better yet, let’s hear about the dreams that you are going to pursue.






